An (Embarrassing) Confession

An (Embarrassing) Confession

I have a confession to make.

A month ago, I had an epiphany about my calling. Sounds serious, doesn’t it! I have always been passionate about relationships and knew that I wanted to do something related to this topic. I believe that the quality of our relationships directly influences all other areas of our lives, and I also believe that the context of a relationship provides us with the most intimate opportunities for our personal and spiritual growth. I wish to see people in rich and fulfilling relationships which bring out the best in them. That night when the epiphany hit, it became clear that I want to help them improve their communication so as to build, strengthen and heal relationships.

I was delirious! I woke Mr Hurry (the hubby) up and proclaimed my world-saving plans to him. He thought he was dreaming. I announced to my friends around the world, “I have found my calling!” and they were all excited for me, nodding in approval at the necessity of that work. I started mapping out ideas and visualised myself to be the next John Gottman, Gary Chapman, or Bill and Pam Farrel. I decided that I should now channel all sources towards manifesting that and refocused my blog to that sole purpose. I wrote a message to all my blog readers where I gushed determinedly about this new focus. You might even have noticed the new title ‘You Can’t Hurry Love’ and wonder what Huimin is up to.

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The One Thing That Could Transform Your Relationship

The One Thing That Could Transform Your Relationship

“He doesn’t really care”
“She is being unreasonable”
“I can’t talk to him about certain issues”
“I don’t understand her”

These are some common complaints from couples about talking to their partners. It can be frustrating especially if you feel that you are trying hard and your partner is not cooperating. You might even be wondering if the situation will ever change.

Here’s the good news. There is one thing that anyone can do and it will transform your relationship.

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